Was i drunk the whole relationship

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Was I Drunk The Entire Relationship Memes. Updated daily, for more funny memes check our homepage. I was holding a plastic tray full of miniature bottles of alcohol—including SKYY Vodka, Beefeater Gin and Johnnie Walker—as part of my. I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for about 5 months. He is 33, I am Ninety-five percent of the time, I could not ask for a.

Although it was of course not his fault, he felt responsible and thereafter threw himself into hour working days and restricted his eating. One day I met him from work to go for a pub lunch and he said he needed to quickly pop to an outbuilding.

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I spotted him through the window knocking back a bottle of beer. At home, I started to find empty bottles of beer in drawers, cupboards or behind the computer. I repeatedly told him to stop, and moaned about what he drank in the evenings. No normal boss would have kept him on.

was i drunk the whole relationship

This not only didn't help him, it also triggered in me a need to control both him and the drinking. Deep down, I was terrified of where it would all lead. But naturally I could not control things.

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There were two sides to him though. Filled with hopelessness and shame at the way he was playing me, I was reluctant to tell our families and had no close friends.

So I went to my GP, who suggested I threaten to leave him. His family were told, and were supportive, cutting out alcohol from their own lives for a year.

He became depressed, moody and started to skip work. When the hidden bottles appeared again I told him enough was enough; that this time I was off as he had failed to curb his drinking.

But he knew where my weaknesses lay and would use our children, then four and six, against me, making them beg me to stay.

was i drunk the whole relationship

I had to plead with him to come home, and he promised to get it back under control. Torn to pieces by the horror into which my married life had descended, I decided to take my own life. Desperate for him to take some responsibility for the situation, this was my warped solution. So I did the school run and took the dog to the woods.

was i drunk the whole relationship

After two bouts of fatty liver jaundice and further hospital stayshe finally went to rehab and AA. This is what prompted me to seek help too. If nothing else, it would get me out of the house and out of my life, I reasoned. I was mentally and physically broken. Mine have included lock jaw, bowel problems, pins and needles, blurred vision and night sweats.

The first time I saw him like that, a family member just died, so I took it as, oh, he is just under a lot of stress, and didn't say anything that night. I did let him know the next day, and he just said "Next time I get like that, just punch me in the face. A month later he was out with his buddies from work. I knew he was going out for a little bit and that he would be home around 9.

was i drunk the whole relationship

He started texting me around 7 p. I asked him when he was coming home as he takes the trainand by then it was 10 p. Of course I was worried, drove to Boston, and drove around two hours looking for him, because he was so drunk, he had no idea where he was.

Then the whole car ride back he was calling me names, being mean to me, just hurting my feelings. The next day, I told him about all the things he said he didn't rememberand he was very apologetic. Now fast forward another six weeks to last night. He called me to tell me he was going to be an hour late.

I waited at the train station, and waited, and waited. After two hours I went home. Then, of course, the same texts came in, he was drunk, wandering around Boston, no clue where he was, first being sweet, then being a jerk.

Have you ever looked at your 'Ex' and thought - was I drunk the entire relation

I stood my ground and told him he can find his own place to sleep, as I was not going to drive around Boston looking for him again. Of course he was texting me all night. As I was writing this, being worried about him as I didn't hear from him since around 3: I was tossing and turning the whole nighthe just called.

He again apologized, saying he handles stress wrong, and that it has nothing to do with me, and that he won't do this again, and he will cut down on his drinking.

was i drunk the whole relationship

I am wondering how many times I should give him a chance. Please note that he does NOT drink everyday, or every weekend, as I think he knows how bad he gets. But when he does drink, I always dread it, as he does not know how to moderate, he goes to full blown drunk.

When he is sober, which is 95 percent of the time, he is amazing! As I said before, he takes care of me, bonds really close with my son and my family, and helps around the house, cooks everyday.

I just don't know how to deal with his drinking when he drinks, as he becomes a horrible person that I wouldn't wish on anyone.

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It doesn't matter that he only shows it some of the time. It's still a drinking problem. It's a drinking problem that puts you at risk, hurts your feelings, and has you searching for your partner in the middle of the night like he's a lost dog.